Baby Gal Do You Really Want To Get Married
Baby Gal Do You Really Want To Get Married
This was posted on Facebook by one Chiamaka Enem, about Ladies and their attitude towards marriage and Men.
She is right because most of the ladies in this 21st century are crossing their fingers waiting for an already maid husbands to come and ask for their hands in marriage without adjusting and thinking for the future.
She wrote:
BABY GAL!
DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED?
(A must read for every single lady)
It is the dream of every young lady who is not called by God into the
convent to behold a man someday as her better half but the truth is that
it can't happen unless somethings are placed under scrutiny and
approached with caution....
1. How often do you come to God in
prayers for that singular petition *MARRIAGE*? He never forsakes but
answers at His own timing.
2. How many suitors have you rejected
all because you want him a tall, rich and handsome man. Nne! Physical
qualities are the least considered in a man. Consider his attitude to
life and family background.
3. It hurts me so bad to see young
ladies insult their mothers just because they managed to come in contact
with light. Nne! If your parents don't bless you, you are going no
where.
4. Relaxing in the front seat of cars of numerous guys is
not a PLUS to your personality. It has only succeeded in giving you a
wrong tag.
5. Why must you castigate other ladies amidst guys or
in public? Are you better off? If only you know that you are indirectly
telling that guy that you can't keep his secrets.
6. Don't speak
ill of your man's parents in his presence. He can't give a ring to a
woman who doesn't cherish the worth of the home that moulded him to the
man he is today.
7. Dress gorgeously. The last time I checked, you don't need to go naked to attract a suitor. Dress to be addressed well.
8. There is one petty trading business your mum does, don't call it
DIRTY or LOW STANDARD. Join her there to make that #1. You may be lucky
to find your Mr. Right through that avenue. Humility pays.
9. A
lazy bone cannot accommodate the storms of marital life. Get your mind
and hands fixed on sth lucrative. This will help relieve the burden in
the home you are about entering. Nne! Your little contribution means a
lot to that man. No man wants to get married to a liability.
10.
You don't argue with your man all the time just to show him how wise and
knowledgeable you are. Atimes play dummy and listen to their views. It
makes him feel in charge a d project you to be SUBMISSIVE.
11.
Don't constantly market yourself to guys. You may end up being
heartbroken. Real men can detect the ripe and right seed when they see
it.
12. No man can condone a bad cook for a wife. If you can't
make a comfortable and palatable pot of Egusi soup without having it
pass salt all the time, there is a problem. It's never late to learn.
Enrol in a catering school or better still get a cookery book or join
the online group known as COOKING MADE EASY. Trust me, you will never
regret it.
13. Don't be too bare for a lady. Your looks must first appeal to his senses before it goes further to his heart.
14. Loud makeover make you look dirty and older than your age. Give
that face a simple touch and till retain that original look.
15.
Spreading your legs open for different men won't earn you any permanent
place in their heart. Sex is the least instrument to ascertain and
validate a man's affection. IT IS TIME TO ZIP UP.
16. Dating sugar daddies doesn't make you a bigger babe. You are only shading your innocent and chaste blood to old cargoes.
17. Research has it that most of the traits of a child are tapped from
the mother due to the biological connection. This is the main reason why
you should load that brain now you are still young or have your whole
monetary resources given to lesson teachers for the sake of ur kids
18. Take care of your inner body. Bath well, apply cologne, brush well
and keep your undies and inner clothings neat. Body odour is a great
turn off.
19. Don't be too demanding. Some gifts a man gives you are actually test. Don't be in a haste to collect them.
20. Don't be too HARSH on men. If you aren't interested in their
proposal. Kindly give him your answer in a decent manner not shoving him
off with abuses.
Learn to keep mute, don't be in a haste to
spill that good news of engagement or marriage to your girlfriend. Not
every smile is original. Tread with caution.
In all, be YOURSELF and always appreciate the YOU in YOU.
#photocredit @ Facebook image.
Enem Chiamaka Becky
Golden Pen
2018
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